"Don’t be defined by your condition" often seems to mean "pretend your condition doesn’t shape your life or else".
"Don’t let [traumatic life-altering event that causes long-term emotional, mental, and physical health problems] define you" often seems to mean "stop talking about [traumatic life-altering event] and pretend it never happened and doesn’t shape your life or else".
This is an important point.
- (140/365) by (DS)
- Dean Steed (via daughterofzami)
daisy: my technical first kiss was with my friend cause we wanted to see what it felt like. I was about 8? My real first kiss I was fourteen.
oxlip: I would definitely been in a long distance relationship. I am a crazy, clingy, loyal person. If I like you it doesn’t matter where you go. :3
tulip: for my birthday I asked for double chocolate cake with strawberries between the layers. xoxo
zinnia: my best friend when I was six was Megan Halfhill. I haven’t spoken to her in years and she appears to be a snobby typical white girl from Facebook.
Queen Anne’s lace: crave pumpkins or wrap presents. I’m not really a big fan of either because I’m no good, but carving pumpkins is more fun. :3
I love you too.